Congratulations if you are reading this article. Most of what is in this post you already know because you are dating a book lover. But perhaps you’d want to restate your conviction that every person dating a bookworm recognises a trend in their relationship. It always feels good to find relatable content, don’t you think?
Because they never run out of topics to discuss, dating a book lover is never dull. They never run out of do-you-knows, regardless of the topic of the talk. So there you have it—10 things you can definitely connect to if you are dating a book lover.
1.) They need Me-Time
You know how important me-time is, I’m sure. How can you not be? You must be exposed to this virtually daily. Although you might not fully comprehend this, your partner needs to set aside time each day for their book as well. Be prepared to be silenced a lot if you talk during this period.
2.) Choosing a gift for them is so easy
You may always give them books for a birthday, an anniversary, or just because! Do not stress over trying to come up with the ideal present. Right in front of you is the ideal present. Choose a book, finish it, and you’re ready to travel! Additionally, you might choose a book for them to read and show them around websites with book summaries.
3.) Movie vs Book war never ends
The battle between books and movies will never end. Even if you believe that the movie is superior, there are countless arguments as to why so much of the book was left out. Now that you are wiser, you will not agree with them on this point. In such case, get ready to be made to read the book!
4.) Often you are asked to read books
They will ask you to read the book they recently finished or are now reading because, as your partner, they truly want to share their newest fixation with you. Although you might not be able to refuse, are you really required to read? Here’s a little-known fact: you can read book summaries online to find out what the book is all about. I’m happy to help!
5.) They are understanding and mature
You must be aware by now that while dating a book lover, they can be incredibly mature and understanding. They are aware of your needs for solitude and simple listening. Keep them close by!
6.) You have to respect their fictional crushes
You’ve probably already heard your partners call someone the most ideal individual who has ever existed! Much jealousy! Wait till you learn they aren’t real! You have to get used to listening to them talk endlessly about the fictional people they have a crush on.
7.) They get sad in real life for what happens in the book
Your girlfriend might have been sobbing uncontrollably when you got home. When they tell you their favourite character died in the novel, you must be terrified and prepared to hear the worst. Well, for them, it’s horrible! You must be used to getting agitated about events in the book up to this point.
8.) You are not allowed to touch their books
Book enthusiasts guard their books fiercely. Therefore, it can seem like a large chore to complete merely to get your partner to consent to lending you books. Post that you must send it back by the deadline. And if you record your location by folding any book pages, we just have one word for you: RUN!
If you’ve ever dated a bookworm, you are aware of what occurs when you mark or stain their book. *goosebumps*
9.) They are always buying books
If you take them out on a nice day and you are anywhere near a bookshop, keep them in sight at all times. Your entire day is lost if you do. If you were in between those substantial book shelves, your companion wouldn’t even be aware that you were gone.
You need not be concerned about kids spending money on anything besides books. They keep accumulating books in the house in mound after pile.
10.) They are always smelling books
Every time you watch your spouse pick up a new book, you also notice them opening it in half and inhaling deeply. You might not be able to comprehend the expression of relief on their face. But the aroma is heavenly to a bookworm!
Even while browsing a bookstore for books, their initial inclination is to open the book, give it a scent, and then discover what the contents are. Start with the sniffing as well if you want to keep them around!